“Love is in the air,” they say, and it’s no wonder why. Love has the power to bring people together, lift us up, and make us feel truly alive. Whether it’s the rush of a new romance or the comfort of a long-term partnership, love surrounds us all. It’s the driving force behind many of life’s most beautiful moments, and the reason why we keep searching for that special connection.
And when it’s valentines day all you can think of is how to make your significant other feel special! But let’s face it, your partner deserves to feel special every single day, and in case you are going through a rough patch , we give you 3 relationship lessons to learn from our all-time favorite drama “Zindagi Gulzar Hai.”
1. Love Can & Does Conquer All!
Kashaf persistently believes that because Zaroon is from a different social class than she is, their lives are not compatible. However, Zaroon always looks beyond money and sees his wife for who she really is. One dialogue that stuck with us to date is when Kashaf says:
Har baar, jab tum mere maa-baap ke liye ehteraaman kharay hote ho toh main tumhare saamne jhukne lagti hoon. Aur kya kuch nahi jo mujhe tumhare saamne mom nahi karta. Ek chote se ghar ke iss pankhe waale kamre mein tumhari ye gehri neend. Mineral water bottle ko dhoondne ke bajaye, nalke ka paani pee lena. Hand wash chor kay, ek saste saabun se haath dhona. Apni plate ko meri maa ke haath ke pake khaane se baar baar bharna.”
Zaroon Junaid really proved that you don’t love someone for their money or power instead you love someone because of how they make you feel.
2. Communication Is Key
In the early stages of their marriage, anytime there is an argument or misunderstanding, the couple stops communicating, which exacerbates the problem.
Eventually, Zaroon makes the decision to establish a rule that anytime the two of them argue, they won’t cut off communication and will instead work together to resolve the issue.
Open communication is one of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship. It allows partners to express their thoughts, feelings, and needs to one another, leading to a greater understanding of each other and fostering a deeper connection. When partners have open communication, they can address any concerns or issues they may have in a timely and effective manner. This helps to prevent small problems from becoming big ones.
Open communication also allows partners to feel heard and understood. When people feel like they can express themselves freely and be listened to, they are more likely to feel valued and respected in the relationship. Additionally, open communication helps partners to negotiate and compromise, leading to mutually agreed-upon solutions. When partners are able to communicate effectively, they can find win-win solutions to any challenges they may face, rather than constantly butting heads.
3. Your Partner Deserves Privacy and Space
When Zaroon reads Kashaf’s messages or opens letters that are addressed to her, she becomes agitated. She then questions why he does this, and she makes it abundantly obvious that it is an invasion of her privacy. Kashaf mentions how both partners deserve space.
“Private or personal baatein tou har aik ki hoti hein,mian biwi ki bhi hoti hein.Kya hum 2 mature insaan apni zindagi mein itni bhi azaadi ka haq nahi rakh saktay. Kya shaadi ka rishta har haq,har azadi ko khajata hai?”
and then when Zaroon self-reflects:
“Hum aik dosray kay sath rehtay rehtay aik dosray ki zindagi mein is qadar mudakhiklat nahi karni chaiye kay dum ghutnay lagay”
This conveys a very important message for all the couples out there. Privacy and space are critical components of healthy relationships. They provide individuals with a sense of personal autonomy and allow them to maintain a sense of self, separate from the relationship. When people feel like they have privacy and space, they are able to recharge, process their thoughts, and pursue their own interests, which ultimately makes them better partners.
Moreover, privacy and space also foster trust and respect in relationships. When people trust that their privacy will be respected, they are more likely to trust their partner in other areas of the relationship. And when partners respect each other’s need for space, they demonstrate mutual respect for one another’s boundaries.
Thank you for Umera Ahmed, your dialogues are evergreen & immortal, sweeping us away on a spiritual journey of love & self-reflection forever.
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