The good and evil side of Tere Bin. While we are deeply in love with the cute and romantic moments of Murtasim and Meerab, we cannot ignore the regressive messages that the drama is sending out through the very same characters.
Cute Romance
Meerab ki jealousy and Murtasim kee laperwahi, both are giving us just the perfect combination of love-hate, and chemistry. The Gol gappa scene was the ultimate heart-winner. Especially Meerab teasing Murtasim, but with her own adaa and nakhras. After last night’s Tere Bin episode, Gol gappas have become our favourite food after kheer.
A Sudden Reminder From Rohail
Did Rohail just remind Meerab of all that she had lost, all that Murtasim’s intense love is making her forget? The life she had, the aims she had dreamt of achieving, the independence she enjoyed and was used to? And the moment she remembers that Murtasim is responsible for the loss of her past life. But can she really blame him? He is also stuck in a marriage where his wife refuses to accept him…
Meerab’s Wisdom Strikes Again & Then Maa Begum?
We loved Meerab’s dialogue ”mein kisi kay peechy nahin bhaagti”. Such a beautiful message that was sent out to all the girls to keep their pride and self-respect, no matter what. Again, her question to Maa Begum as to why she didn’t get Haya & Murtasim married was relevant and showed Meerab’s praiseworthy sense of always seeking a fair & just outcome in life, even if she doesn’t approve of the person in question.
Ma Begum speaking gently with Meerab was a heart-warming scene till she starts the conversation about Meerab giving herself to Murtasim.
That was a disappointing conversation between Maa Begum and Meerab. Telling Meerab to love and take care of Murtasim so that eventually she will be happy. We have come a long way to teach our girls to not accept this mentality. For parents to not force decisions of marriage or career choices on their daughters and then think that, eventually, she will be happy. A girl should not be expected to give up and be happy in whatever situation she is in, just because the other person is good, or others believe this is good for her. Her will and her marzi matters. Forced decisions ko kismet sumajh ker qabool ker lo…is not the mantra we need to advocate here.
But the conversation sent that regressive message with full force. Meerab who had dreams and who was cornered in this marriage is now being told to accept Murtasim, love him and in turn, she will be happy. This one message overshadows all the romance and cute moments, taking us back many years. We wish desperately that this message was not given.
Ownership Issues
Murtasim’s streak of wanting to own his beloved in the bangles scene was another angle that perhaps could have been shown in a different way. Demonstrating love to your wife in public by giving her bangles or helping her wear them is absolutely fine, but to bring in aggressiveness and possessiveness is a tricky path to take. We must be careful with the kind of idealism we are sending out through portrayals of romance.
That Dupatta Scene!
Last but not the least, when the drama is so big on everything, then the dupatta scene could have also been executed in a better way that actually showed a dreamy sequence and a more tastefully done set. We have seen these dupattas many times… you know where… ahem ahem…fiction and oh so cute romantic moments.
I think you don’t know the meaning of qabool hai, it means now as per Islam i will a live as his wife (wo sari cheezen lazim hojayen gi jo islam ne hukum Diya he)
Drama me ye sab hota he and Islam never says to majboor her wo jo dialogue tha na Hamza ka hala ke liye mere humsafar mein jao ye sari dunya he tumhare samne wahi is drame me bhi hua lekin us mein wo character tha zubaan se kehta he aur yahaan murtasim ne zubaan se nahi kaha bas itna hi farq he
Tell me something i gave such a good comment most of the drama audience don’t know the meaning of qabool hai so i explained is this work of fuchsia team of deleting comments or your website has problem where is my comment
no one has deleted your comment. it should be there
Why sab geo k dramas mein eik larki ki kisi sey shaadi hojaye toh thore dinn baad uss ka boyfriend aake usse relationship tornew ya divorce ka bolta hai stop this nonsense sequence itna acha drama ka look bekaar krdia appne
For those who read my comment don’t misunderstand yes husband don’t own wife but here murtasim was also not selling meerub because he owns her he just want a obedient respecting caring loving wife and thanks to fuchsia magazine for not deleting my comments
Aap log itna zyada fikar kiyun karte hain jaise maa baap hote hain waise bache hote hain haan kuch logon mein parents children philosophy match nahi karta to un ka bhi kuch na kuch ho hi jata he asal mein baat ye he ke jo kuch logon ka masla he us ko sab ka bana diya aur sab ke khayal ko feminist wala kardiya ab ye jo zabardasti ki shaadi do bol, kaisi Teri khudgarzi, tere bin wagaira mein hua he ye dastaan ke category mein aate hain haqeeqat main hona bahut mushkil is liye bas enjoy karo